In a recent episode of the trash tv program The Bachelor, the show brought on a celebritwit named Latto, who told the women they need to have “bad bitch energy”. Ostensibly these women are on the show pretending that they are looking for love and a husband. Except if they decide to take this advice from the celebrity (which is rarely a good idea), they will most likely end up lonely and single for most of their lives.
Young ladies, if you are looking for a good man, an honorable, holy, tough, loving, respectable man, then being a “bad bitch” is the exact OPPOSITE way to find him. Good men aren’t interested in making a “bad bitch” their wife. They certainly don’t want them to be the mother of their children.
Good men are looking for good women, not bad bitches. They are looking for holy, loving, feminine, caring, warm, gentle and modest women. They don’t need a tough or “bad” woman, because they are already tough. They don’t need or want an assertive and domineering woman. They want to be the head, leader and husband of the home. They’re not looking for a wife that tries to pretend she’s the husband.
Young ladies, don’t listen to anything our culture celebrates or tells you to be. They want you depressed, angry, alone, degenerate and sterile. Be the opposite. Learn to cultivate the seven holy virtues of chastity, temperance, charity, diligence, meekness, kindness and humility. Especially humility, our culture hates that one most of all.
Cultivate your God-given qualities and graces of your feminine nature. You have talents and gifts that men do not. So make sure you have those in abundance and practice them regularly because good people who are looking for a spouse are looking for those traits in the opposite sex that they do not possess. Good men are looking for soft, caring, feminine women. They aren’t looking for “bad bitches”. And in similar fashion good women are looking for strong, confident, masculine men. They aren’t looking for weak and emasculated men.
Young men and women, reject modernity. Embrace tradition. Be the good and holy person you were designed and created to be instead of the sad, degenerate shell of person that our culture wants you to be.
So well written!! Immediately shared with my two oldest daughters. Thank you :)