Christ is the True Redpill - Part 2
Don't be fooled by all the fake redpills out there...
See Christ is the True Redpill - Part 1 of this series.
As we left off in Part I, the discussion was about the timeless tradition and wisdom that fake redpill accounts teach to young men but then they also teach errors which can lead men to ruin as well. So what should a young man do and what is the true Redpill?
THE TRUE REDPILL IS JESUS CHRIST
The Redpill is ultimately about the truth and reality. That is what is promised. As such, you cannot find the truth while rejecting Him who is truth itself. Jesus, as He says Himself, is the way, the truth and the life. So any redpill content not based and founded upon Christ is doomed to contain error. It cannot be avoided.
This means that a young man who wants to know the truth about the world, reality, himself and his purpose, must eventually become Catholic. Only by embracing Him who is truth itself will you be set free. This doesn’t mean you will have it easy, since even in The Matrix movie, the real world was much more desolate compared to the fake reality of the matrix.
Now this can be a little unsettling to many young men, because they have a false impression of the Catholic faith. For almost 70 years now, the vast majority of priests and bishops in the Catholic Church have been effeminate and weak “men” who frankly disgust actual men. They are sissies and pathetic creatures. This is NOT the actual Catholic faith. The actual Catholic faith is Crusader knights bravely facing down the hordes of demons and fighting them.
The actual Catholic faith is strong and violent men who are under control of their power. They embody the true virtue of meekness, which means power under control. Weak men cannot be meek, since they have no power to control. Only a dangerous man can be meek. It also does not mean a man of wrath who allows his emotions amok. He must be in control. Meekness has two components which are both necessary. A man must have both power AND control. He only unleashed his power when needed, but he does NOT restrain his power when it is needed. That is cowardice. So the Catholic man needs both power and control.
STAY ON YOUR PURPOSE
The Catholic Redpill man also must have focus on his purpose. He works hard and is diligent with his money and time. He does not focus on girls, or sports, or recreation, or drugs or anything else. The Catholic Redpill man has a hierarchy of priorities which is discussed in depth here. He focuses on God, his family, his job, his health, and then on recreation and other activities. He does not make a woman his focus.
The man will keep his focus on his responsibilities and take care of all of them. Sprinkled in all of that he will have recreation activities. Those will not become idols for him to worship, but instead are spices to add to his life. They never become the primary focus of his life. While the Redpill Catholic man is doing all this, he will then make himself interesting to young women. They will be attracted to his focus and priorities. The Redpill Catholic man will invite the young lady to follow his lead on these things, but he won’t make her his focus. If he does so, she will lose interest in him.
WOMEN HAVE GONE OFF THE RAILS
Part of the problem today is that our culture has brainwashed young people to such an extent that they can’t even understand the concept of modesty and morality. Part of the indoctrination that is given to young women is that they must become a Boss Babe. They don’t even know that the Boss Babe will lead to the destruction of the family. This is discussed more here.
It is common for young women to think that they can go out and live a degenerate and depraved lifestyle in their twenties, and then when they feel like settling down, they can just switch off their “ho-phase” and become wife and mother material. That’s not how life works.
JESUS FORGIVES SINS, HE DOESN’T ELIMINATE TEMPORAL CONSEQUENCES
Anyone can be redeemed and saved by Christ. He can forgive any sin at all, except the sin of final impenitence. That is the blasphemy against the Holy Spirit that is the unforgiveable sin. But in all of that, Christ does not remove temporal consequences for sins. A simple example can help to illuminate this. Say you have stolen $1,000 from someone, and realize that you have sinned. You go to Confession and receive absolution. But you still must return the $1,000. You don’t get to keep the money. You also must face the consequences for stealing this money, such as this person never trusting you ever again. This is also why society must jail people even if they have repented of their wicked ways. Temporal (earthly) consequences must follow.
So for women (and for men), if you spend your early years mired in degeneracy and filth, you will face severe consequences for that behavior. Even if you have repented of those sins and wish to live a holy life going forward, you will still have temporal effects that follow you. It may take the form of having trouble finding someone willing to marry you. It may take the form of having trouble bonding with a potential spouse and being able to turn away from the thrill of your prior degeneracy.
The reason that addiction to drugs and alcohol is so difficult to turn away from and entirely defeat is the temporal consequences. The addict has given themselves over to the thrill and exhilaration of that sin to such a degree, that it has scarred them. That damage will always be a temptation to return to that thrill and exhilaration once again, even when you know it is a catastrophe for you. That is very similar to degeneracy. The more degeneracy and depravity you have committed, the more that you develop an addiction to that sin. It gets more and more difficult to fix.
SO WHAT SHOULD WE DO?
The first thing for both young men and young women to start by leading lives of holiness and purity. Go back to the sacraments and pray your rosary each day. Avoid sin and immediately repent when you do sin. Keep doing this each day to grow in holiness. This will start to train you for living a righteous life going forward.
Second, for those who are young, here are some tips on how each sex should start to treat the opposite sex going forward.
HOW TO TREAT A WOMAN
As mentioned above, a Redpill Catholic young man will focus on his purpose and his priorities. Be a gentleman, but do not permit anyone to disrespect you or deflect you away from your purpose. If someone is being disrespectful, remember the virtue of meekness (power under control). You simply tell the person you will not accept disrespect and move on from that person. You do not need to confront them and you certainly cannot make them change their behaviors. You just need to leave.
If you find any young women that you are interested in, then be a man about it. Go up to her directly and ask her out on a date. I would caution to make it a casual date because there are so many today who are just looking for a free meal. Be direct and tell her where you will take her and then suggest the time. Trust me, she will respect your directness and confidence, even if she declines the offer. And if she does decline, be polite and thank her for being direct with the rejection. (Rejection stinks, but it is better than her lying for a free meal or playing with your emotions.)
Once you do that, let it progress naturally. Keep your focus on your goals and purpose. Invite the young lady to come along for the journey as you lead the way. She may choose to follow or she may choose not to. You can’t worry about that or change her mind. You make your choice and then let her make her choice. Don’t try to convince her or try to beg her. You keep moving towards your goals. The right girl will notice how you are acting and will show her interest in following you.
HOW TO TREAT A MAN
Young ladies, this is not difficult. If a man invites you on a date, either accept or reject him. Be polite if you must reject, but do not string him along. If you accept the date, be willing to follow his lead. You want to find a strong man, so don’t try to be the man in the relationship. Be the woman you are. You will find your true inner beauty come out if you do this.
From there, it is not hard to build a relationship with a man. If you find a good, holy, strong man, then follow his lead and show interest in him. Don’t play games. You don’t need to be a Boss Babe. Every man either has a boss at work, or he is the boss at work. He doesn’t want a boss at home. If you do this, you will find that your true femininity will blossom. Be gentle with him and loving. If you do this, he will sacrifice anything to provide a good life for both of you. He will fall for you and want to have many babies with you.
Life was never complicated. We have made it very complicated in recent decades because we rejected the Catholic faith and rejected the timeless truths of tradition. We rejected what has worked for eons for all humans everywhere because we thought we knew better. Trust me, they don’t.